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The Household Chef

Employed, not booked

The Household Chef

€5,500 to €12,000 per month

A permanent position in a private house: daily cooking for a family, dinners for guests, the shopping, the inventory and the diary.

A household chef is an employment relationship, not a booking. The work is daily cooking for a family at a consistent standard, plus the guest dinners, the travel, the shopping, the stock rotation and the quiet diplomacy of a staffed house. Salaries in Europe run 5,500 to 12,000 euros a month depending on city, hours, travel and whether the role includes event cooking.

The skills that matter are different from event cooking. Variety without novelty, because the same people eat every day. Precision with diets, because the brief may include a medical restriction or an athlete’s macros. Budget control, inventory and waste. And discretion, which is why the profile is recruited by reputation and reference rather than by portfolio.

Hosts who hire well here describe it as the single largest quality of life change available. Hosts who hire badly describe a year of polite awkwardness, which is why a paid trial week of ordinary meals is standard practice and worth insisting on.

Skills

What the job actually demands

  • Cooking for the same people every day without repeating
  • Working inside a household hierarchy and diary
  • Nutrition, training plans and medical diets
  • Discretion, which in this profile is the first requirement

Watch out

The warning sign

Candidates who only present event menus. The job is Tuesday lunch for two, done well, two hundred times a year.

Trial

How to audition one

A paid trial week, cooking the family’s ordinary meals rather than a showpiece dinner.

Ask these five questions

Before you book

  1. How do you plan a month for the same four people?
  2. How do you handle a medical diet or a training plan?
  3. What is your relationship with the house manager?
  4. How do you manage the food budget and inventory?
  5. What do you cook when the principals arrive unannounced at eleven at night?

Questions hosts ask

What does a household chef cost in Europe?

5,500 to 12,000 euros a month gross depending on city, hours, travel and event duties, plus accommodation in many arrangements.

Full time or freelance?

If you eat at home more than four nights a week and entertain monthly, full time is cheaper and better. Below that, a regular freelance chef is the sensible structure.

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